Sunday, July 12, 2009

Who's Your Audience?

Once during a teacher/principal conference, my principal took a sip of his coffee and plopped his mug down in front of me. It said, "I'm Smarter Than You." And it was true. He was wicked smaht. We chatted for a bit and he had mentioned that he was writing a book (he really wasn't that bragadocious, I'm summarizing here), and I stupidly blurted out, "Uh, well, actually I'M writing a book too right now." I then explained how it was about a collection of quilts that my mom and I had made and there were pictures and maybe some directions. His only question? "Who's the audience?"


That's when it hit me. The audience was only me. Basically I was writing a scrapbook, not a story to be made into a book. Oh. Umm. There's a difference?

So now there's a blog world out there. And I'm a member. But who's my audience? Hard to say. I started out with a nod to the crafty world by posting photos of finished crafts or contests I've entered. I even got a shout out from a super big sewing blog who liked a tutorial I made. That was a bit of fun. And then...I took a break from crafting and figured I had nothing to blog about because people who came to read my blog would be people who enjoyed crafting. What would they think when I started writing about my ideas for middle grade books for boys? I think they'd think about not coming back.

Well, you'll notice on my profile that I say I do a lot of things. I mother. I wife. I cook. I clean. I write, blah blah blah. Really, it just looks like a lot. There are many days when I just sit around ignoring my motherly duties while I read Nathan Bransford's blog! But it's hitting me...I'm all over the place. So who's MY audience? I guess I'm hoping it's someone who dabbles in many things as well. Someone who has a crafty side, an introspective side, a non-house cleaning side, a side that loves Project Runway...you get the picture. I'm hoping that if you stumble upon this blog to read a post that follows some sort of theme, you'll understand if it takes me awhile to get back to that particular theme. My mind is not focused enough.

Perhaps that means I'm really only writing for myself again. I guess my audience is me. If your mind is also all over the place, please sign up to follow me. Then you can be part of my audience as well.

12 comments:

Ruth said...

Good point. Now I know why I've been so reluctant to blog lately--I've been focused on writing, but my blog is about recipes and cooking, with occasional movie or book reviews thrown in. I have no audience, or possibly a small, confused audience. I liked this post; I also enjoyed the one about types of blog commenters.

Vacuum Queen said...

Thanks, Ruth. You see...maybe we're all alike after all! It seems like writing takes a back seat to all of the other "stuff" we have to do in our lives. Your blog sounds like something I'd like to read. I'm heading on over in a bit. :)

Sonja said...

My blog is for my family and who ever joins in. Our family is all on the east coast from Fl to Cananda. We are in MO. So the pictures and stories I write are to keep in touch. I think sometime I do not have much of an audience. Until I talk to people and they tell me how much they ennjoy my blog. So I guess sometimes it's not tht comments we are looking for. But how many people enjoy reading your blog. By the way I love reading your blog, keep it going.

Vacuum Queen said...

Thanks, Sonja!

Laurel said...

Ah! A girl I can relate to. I started my blog for me and me only- in fact I didn't tell anyone for a long time. Once I started to share though I realized there are so many wonderful peeps out there just living and creating and doing what we all do. I have met fabulous people from 15 to ???? Wise people- kind and funny people. It's a great place to see and be seen. Warm Blog hugs to you.
xxooLaurel

Stephanie Faris said...

I just came over here from MySpace so I'm trying to readjust my writing to a different audience. Over there it was a younger group...and I wrote a lot of relationshipy type things. It may take me a little while to find my voice over here but I'm looking forward to getting to know all of you!

Sweetwater Baby said...

thank you for saying this. i, too, blog. and i, too, am all over the place. however, i do not have an audience...so I've got that going for me - which is nice. but thank you for making it ok for us schitzo bloggers to do what we do! :)

P.S. i, for one, like what you do

Vacuum Queen said...

Thanks, Sweetwater Baby! I'll be your audience! :)

ayumills said...

I love this post! I too sometimes wonder why I am blogging. Sometimes I spend hours on just a post and receive no response. This makes me wonder why I even cared to update the particular post. But I totally agree with you. I write for myself and a few people who seem to be enjoying my blog.
I stumbled upon your blog a long time ago and I love it here ever since! I really enjoy comments from you too! They are always so sweet and warm. thank you!!

wendy said...

Very witty and entertaining blog! I'm definitely all over the place, too. I like to do webby things, plus design/illustrate, plus write. Housework, not so much. It's nice to meet you :)

M. K. Clarke said...

Good point, VQ. I'm a mom too and homeschool, so writing sometimes suffers in the process (I do sleep, when everyone else is and I'm not :)). Still gotta get 'er done, though.

As for your crit group woes, if you haven't already, try an online group. As Rick posted on Nathan's guest blog, if you take someone's opinions, you can take on their voice--and that's what you don't want to do. I know I don't always take my crit group's comments to task; when I do, my voice changes to theirs. They get snippy for it at times, but they'll get over it, as I tell my kids this all the time. :)

Great-lookin' blog here. Feel free to follow me, to. I'll put this into my archives, as well.

~Missye

Vacuum Queen said...

Wendy, you cracked me up about your housework. I totally get it. Laundry day tomorrow. I'm not looking forward to it.

 

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